Friday, January 23, 2015

Sometimes an Intermission is Needed to Resolve Conflict

Introduction      

This week’s first of two MSLD520 blogs is about conflict resolution. Conflict resolution is an area that I work very diligently on and take a lot of pride in finding win-win solutions for both sides. Monday, Jan 19 was a day I will not soon forget. I felt I had lost a conflict with a co-worker because of the circumstances involved, but at the end of the day I believe the outcome will be a win-win for both sides.

Conflict Background

I am the lead technical writer for the Fault Isolation Procedure team for the advanced aircraft group. I have two other writers currently in the group. One is young and the other a very seasoned veteran. Let’s call them Larry (young) and Albert (veteran). Albert is a very good writer, but sometimes has difficulty dealing with ambiguity and having to dig to find information. The Wiring Diagram technical writing team currently has a lead and one writer. Let’s call them Jack (lead) and Fred (writer). About a month ago Fred was hired on to help Jack and shortly after Fred was hired our manager mentioned to me while passing me in the hallway that Fred had fault isolation writing experience. He also stated Fred was interested in overtime hours to help out our team. I told my manager I would speak with Fred to find out more information.
The next day Fred and I spoke about his fault isolation experience and I was pleasantly surprised at how passionate he was about writing fault isolation procedures. He seemed to have the right skill set, but most of all he had just the attitude I was looking for. “Success in today’s market place mean’s having a skilled workforce that is passionately committed to delighting the customers of the organization and then catalyzing those customers to share their surprise and delight with other customers”. (Denning, 2011, p. 119). I’ll never forget when I worked at Southwest Airlines how they hired more on attitude than the details of your resume, so Fred’s attitude stuck in my mind. I told Fred after our conversation that there would be plenty of opportunity in the future for him to work with us and that he would just need to have a little patience. That was Friday of last week.


Conflict Brews

Monday started just like any other Monday. Our Monday standup with our Manager started just as it always does, 0700 sharp. After the meeting ended I made the short walk back to my desk, Jack greeting me from behind for getting to my chair “So you want to do a swap!”, As I turned around my mind raced for a good response (Jack has been known to be a pot stirrer and an equivalent of a 21st Century snake oil salesman) “Who said anything about a swap?” I denied, and rightfully so, any involvement with presenting an idea of a swap of personnel to anyone. Jack continued “Well you know Albert (the veteran) knows how to do wiring diagrams and Fred knows how to do fault isolation. Fred is struggling a bit to learn wiring and he already knows fault isolation.” My mind was working a thousand miles an hour once again looking for a good response “Well I know Fred has experience with fault isolation and I like his attitude, but I never considered a swap Jack…if I were interested we would need to speak to our manager and gets his approval”. Fred wasted no time whacking me across the face with “I already did and he said whatever we decided was okay”. I should have anticipated that response but he caught me off guard…hell I hadn’t even had time to have a cup of coffee yet!


Personal History with Jack

Jack and I have some history. About 5 years ago Jack was struggling to meet his production schedule and at the time I was enjoying a bit of a cushion so I gave him one of my new writers for what was supposed to be three months. I ended up never getting him back and this person ended up getting fired because Jack wouldn’t stick up for him. I contend to this day it was not the writer’s fault and that it was miscommunication and poor memories that got him fired. In addition, shortly thereafter, Jack instigated a conflict with one of my writers who we think had a mild form of autism. Great writer, but sometimes he was socially challenged and he even admitted as much. We looked after him and provided him support. The day Jack instigated the conflict with him I was away and when I returned my writer had already been sent home by the manager. Apparently he had responded to an email Jack sent to him in an inappropriate way and Jack complained to the manager, so the manager sent my writer home. To make a long story short my writer ended up quitting the company because management wouldn’t give my writer any slack on the issue (so my writer contends anyway). So now you understand the history between Jack and I and why I am cautious in dealing with him.       


Conflict Surfaces

So Jack’s proposal needed more consideration…Fred seemed like he would be a great fit, but I would be losing a productive writer and possibly several months of higher production rates if I were to make a straight up trade. So I countered Jack’s proposal “Tell you what Jack, let me test Fred for a week just to make sure he works out and if he does then we’ll make the trade.” Jack wasn’t having any of that! “Are you kidding? No deal…why do you need both Fred and Albert?” The answer was not a hard one “Well, because I can’t afford to lose Albert for a week. You saw how busy this month is going to be for my team in the meeting this morning” Jack’s reply was not surprising “You think you’re the only one busy this month!” I wasn’t going to get corned and pummeled and by this bully. I needed more time to think this through. Jack was good at bullying people into decisions and I wasn’t going to have any of that. I responded firmly “Jack tell you what…let me think it over and I’ll get back to you this afternoon.” He continued carrying on and I repeated myself until he retreated.


Intermission

I went back to work and forgot about our conversation until lunch time. During lunch I thought through the problem. I reflected on what I had learned in MSLD 521 and negotiations. “ Before you actually meet the opposing side, you need to figure out what outcome you want most, what would be less satisfactory but still acceptable, and what constitutes the worst deal you’d accept.” (McKay, Davis & Fanning, 2007, p. 174). I hadn’t had a chance to figure out what outcome that would be less satisfactory but still acceptable. I had been ambushed from behind and under constant fire without much opportunity to critically think through the problem…then it dawned on me that was probably Jack’s strategy. Hit me hard and force me into a decision that was most favorable to him. Hah! Now I really felt like I did the smart thing by delaying the decision.
After weighing the options I realized that I had already won a concession from Jack and that was instead of doing a straight one for one swap like he originally proposed, I was going to get to test drive Fred for a week before making the purchase. The only thing he didn’t agree to was me keeping Albert during that time. So then I thought…okay so what is the real ramification of losing his production for a week if it doesn’t work out? Albert was starting a new project and typically it takes a week of research before the writing process begins, so on paper his lost production for the month since it is the last week of January anyway would not be all that significant.

      

Conflict Resolution

I called Jack back over to my area “Jack, I’m ready to make a deal”. Jack was eager to hear what I was going to propose “Jack, I got to thinking it is not going to have significant impact losing Albert for a week, so let’s go ahead and do the swap for a week and see how things work out before we make this a permanent deal” Jack was in agreement “Sound good Eric, I knew you’d come around.” My reply was confident and careful “I have little doubt it won’t work out, but this is the prudent way to go about this and it really is potentially a big win for both the wiring and fault isolation.” Jack agreed and we began working on a draft training plan for this coming week.


Conclusion

Because Jack and I were able to settle our conflict on how we should do the swap we will be increasing the morale of two people in our department. In addition to allowing Fred to do something he is very passionate about and placing Albert in a situation where there is less ambiguity, it increases the flexibility our department will have in that we’ll have some interchangeable pieces to react to shifting workload. Hopefully the other writing teams will take notice and fault isolation and the wiring group cross-training effort will spread.

References:
Denning, S. (2011). The leader's guide to storytelling: Mastering the art and discipline of business narrative. San Francisco, CA: Josey-Bass.
McKay, M., Davis, M. & Fanning, P. (2009). Messages: The communication skills book. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

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